07 3 / 2013
How can he be so immature and just make no sense at all? How can he not be reasonable, and caring, and understanding? He was like that before. How can he just switch back and forth so easily? Personalities and emotions swinging every which way. It doesn’t make any sense. At all.
You just have to accept the fact that its not going to make sense. That’s what was so frustrating about him this entire time. You can’t expect him just to all of a sudden change when you need him to, when he has no obligation to you anymore. You can’t just count on the idea that he’s supposed to care about you. You know that’s not how he operates. And that’s not love.
Just let it go. You’re not going to get anything out of it. You’re just going to get more and more hurt. It doesn’t matter how he feels. You don’t care how he feels. It’s not going to be perfect. Ever. You just need to learn how to give up. You need to save yourself now. Don’t let him waste more of your time that he’s not wasting thinking about you.
This boy is not your future. Don’t let him ruin anything else. Why waste this time on someone who in the end is not going to matter?
LET IT GO. It’s not going to make sense. It’s not going to be perfect. You don’t have to try and figure it out or make it better one last time. You can’t figure this one out Andrea.
He is an immature, selfish jerk, who was never taught that his actions and words have effect on others. He’s not kind and caring. He is irrational and has ridiculous anger issues. And you can’t fix him. He’s not that person you made him out to be. And that’s not his fault. You just expected too much out of him, that wasn’t him.
He wasn’t the one. So why bother patching up anything. It doesn’t matter. Move on.
26 9 / 2012
"I can write the saddest poem of all tonight.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too."
20 9 / 2012
“Think how you love me,” she whispered. “I don’t ask you to love me always like this, but I ask you to remember.”
“You’ll always be like this to me.”
“Oh no; but promise me you’ll remember.” Her tears were falling. “I’ll be different, but somewhere lost inside me there’ll always be the person I am tonight.”"
20 8 / 2012
"The (500) Days of Summer attitude of “He wants you so bad” seems attractive to some women and men, especially younger ones, but I would encourage anyone who has a crush on my character to watch it again and examine how selfish he is. He develops a mildly delusional obsession over a girl onto whom he projects all these fantasies. He thinks she’ll give his life meaning because he doesn’t care about much else going on in his life. A lot of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with the idea of a person, not the actual person."